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Father McNamara honored
at Venetian Charity Ball
By Judy Bokorney
Web Site Editor
Very
Reverend Stephen E. McNamara, known as Father Ed, did not know that when
he was asked to establish a new parish in Fort Myers in 1974 that the
assignment would become his life.
Father McNamara not only was the founding pastor of Resurrection of
Our Lord Parish, he is the church’s only pastor. He has served the
parish and the Fort Myers community with humility and compassion for the
past 30 years.
Father McNamara was honored at the 2005 Annual Venetian Charity Ball in
February,
which benefits Catholic Charities of Lee County, for his contribution and
commitment to people in need.
Born January 12, 1942 in Ennis, Ireland, Father McNamara never really had
it in his mind to become a priest. “In the old days, in every Irish
family someone was chosen as a child to become a priest. My younger
brother T.J. was earmarked for the priesthood,” said Father McNamara.
“But it didn’t turn out that way.”
Ironically
his father was cast for the priesthood too. “Then he met my mother,”
he said. Father McNamara’s parents ran a grocery store in his hometown
and put him to work there along with his three brothers and one sister.
Beginning at age four he weighed tea and sugar in the back or manned the
counter in the front. He worked there until he was eighteen and then left
home to embark on his journey into the priesthood. However the road was
not an easy one.
Father McNamara began to consider a religious life at 14 when he applied
to the Christian Brothers. “They did not accept me,” he said. “They
did not think that I was brother material.”
Father McNamara then focused on the priesthood. “In the 50s and 60s the
seminaries were filled to capacity. It was not easy to get in. My seminary
of choice was filled up, so I applied to a little known seminary run by
the Trappist Monk’s at Mt. Melleray. They accepted me and I embarked on
my philosophical studies,” he said.
“However during my studies there I developed tuberculosis and it
appeared my hopes of the priesthood were over. My family thought I should
pursue another career. But despite losing a year, I persevered and here I
am,” Father McNamara said.
In 1963,
Father McNamara applied to his seminary of choice, St. Patrick’s College
Carlow, and was accepted. There he studied theology. Father McNamara’s
diocese in Ireland had a surplus of priests, so he opted for a missionary
assignment. “I thought of joining my uncle who was a priest in Nigeria,
Africa but on his and other recommendations, Florida was decided to be
more suitable for me,” he said. “They must have had my golf interest
in mind.”
On June 10, 1967, Father McNamara was ordained by Bishop Patrick Leenon,
D.D., for the Archdiocese of St. Augustine and was given his first job at
St. Martha Parish and Cardinal Mooney High School in Sarasota. In 1971 he
served at St. Cecilia’s in Clearwater and in 1972 at St. Cecilia’s and
Bishop Verot High School in Fort Myers. Then in 1974 he became the
founding pastor of Resurrection of Our Lord Parish in Fort Myers.
“There has been a lot of growth here in Fort Myers over the years,” he
said. Three churches have split from Resurrection Parish: St. Columbkille,
Our Lady of Light and Blessed Pope John the XXIII. Resurrection started
with only 300 families in 1974 and now has over 3,000 families who are
members.
What is Father McNamara’s philosophy about being a parish priest? “I
always put my arms around my parishioners and make them feel that this is
their home,” he said. “The people of God who come here have so much
faith. They only need me to reassure them.”
Father McNamara also extends that compassion to the community beyond the
parish. He and his parishioners always have been solid supporters of
Catholic Charities.
“Father McNamara is an institution in Fort Myers,” said Peter Routsis-Arroyo,
president of Catholic Charities, Diocese of Venice. “He has been in the
forefront in many efforts to help the poor. It is that body of work we are
honoring,” he said.
“I never dreamed that I would be
dealing with people in such a spiritual level at their most serious points
in their lives. I had no idea how fulfilling this career would be when I
was in the seminary. It has been a beautiful experience,” he said.
Outside of the priesthood, Father McNamara still loves the game of golf
and spending time with his new boxer puppy Mack O’Brien, who replaced
Jack O’Brien after 12 years of companionship.
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